Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Furious furious :P

I know that I took a break again from blogging! Not that I really wanted to do it but I just kept away because I did not want to write about all the kind of negativity that was pouring around me.

Ya I do sound nuts right… Well I have been feeling very low lately and with so many issues going on, was wondering how to cope… And I don’t think I can openly write it all here even if I do want to and would love to… (But that would be catastrophic and I literally mean it!)

I have also been having some difficulties at work and really hate it when people try to act too smart and try to belittle others a lot.… Believe me, my patience has been tried to the maximum but still I kept quiet today and I do not know why. I just do not understand why I did not burst out at that female when she came in even though I was extremely furious and boiling and a few minutes before that I was almost screaming at the walls for all the stupid things….

Ahh I know I know you must have stopped reading this by now,,, Well you can’t blame me too much coz I have been putting up with all this for so long and don’t know when there will be an end to all this. And I know I have been silent for too long and have been a kind of doormat for too long too…

Anyway I am certainly trying to maintain my cool and I know some of these issues might come up again in a couple of days and that’s when I don’t know how I will end up reacting. The only reason I haven’t taken all this to my boss is because I did not want to act like a nursery kid who takes her complaints to the class teacher.

Ok now about other things – Ramadan is starting on Friday or Saturday and I wish everyone ‘RAMADAN KAREEM’… Well life is supposed to be easier and better during this time here and I hope to God that it will be… Life will definitely be slower and quieter during the day and with shorter work timings everywhere people will be rushing to get back home and all too… Anyway after the first couple of days the evenings will be a huge rush coz of all the shopping the Arabs end up doing and believe me you will go nuts due to the traffic and all. And ya the Gabqa dinners and Iftar and all that too....

We will have a tough time trying to park the car coz most people would have ended up blocking the area and would have gone for shopping and it will be a pain to go and come. But anyway it’s a holy month and hope that much good comes out of it too.

Once again - RAMADAN KAREEM TO ALL....

Another thing - my condolences on the Jahra Wedding fire that killed so many people and injured so many too… (For those of you who are wondering what I’m talking about –please check the links:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090815/ap_on_re_mi_ea/ml_kuwait_wedding_fire#

http://www.kuwaittimes.net/read_news.php?newsid=MTE5NDgxNTUwMQ==
http://www.pr-inside.com/arsonist-ex-wife-burns-wedding-tent-r1445254.htm
http://www.kippreport.com/2009/08/burning-love/

Well I know that many versions of the story are out but that does not explain or set right what happened… The ex-wife set blaze the tent where the wedding party was going on due to which so many people dies and all of it were women and children and that too everything happened in just 3 short minutes.

Avenging is your personal things to do, but what did those innocent people who attended the wedding do? What about all those numerous number of victims who are in the hospital suffering from the most severe of burns? Will they ever get their life back?

Ahh the world just goes on to be a worser and worser place to live now…

8 comments:

Shades of Grey said...

Selfish people do selfish acts...and they will get their dues.

You just be strong. Ask your self "will this matter in 5 years time" and then just smile at that bitch in an irritating way. :D

Enigma said...

@Shades
ahh i know that jane... But its just unberable...she is tryin to act too smart and its not even been an yr since she joined while i have been here for 3 yrs...she tries to act as if she is boss and even has gone to the extent of writing my signing in and signingout time/correcting it several times... and several other issues...its difficult to go on working with such kind of people and am wondering abt wen i will truly walk out....
humm wish i could do something strong abt this...

An Open Book said...

be a bitch kel..is all i can say ..hehehe
Now thats gud advice right?

Enigma said...

@open book
Ahh nishi thats excellent advice actaully and i want to be a total bitch too after the really dirty way they behave... but i dont know i havent mustered up enough courage to be that way :(

intlxpatr said...

Enigma, do you think the young woman really knew what she was doing when she torched the tent? What she did was horrible, but I don't believe what happened was what she intended. She intended to make her ex husband sorry he had divorced her, and I am guessing she didn't really think things through a lot at all. I feel heartsick for all the families - and also for her, and for her family. I don't believe she understood how awful the devastation was going to be. I don't think she was clear in her thinking.

What proof do I have? None. Only that I cannot imagine anyone doing something like that if they know how many would be killed, how may injured, and what a horrible death it would be.

Reflections said...

Oh tht wedding fire incident was a terrible shock really....its scary how far a person goes to take revenge:-(

How r u progressing with the preganancy:-))????
And Ramadan Kareem to u too:-)!!!!

Enigma said...

@ intlxpatr
Well I think (and hope) that the young woman did not mean to kill so many people wen she torched the tent. I guess all she was trying to do was get bac at her inlaws and husband. And I guess all that was on her mind was vengeance at them and she never thought that things would get out of hand… I do pity her condition and after all she is just 23 and with kids and has just got her life destroyed completely…
But anyway it’s no excuse for what happened because the death rate has gone very high and the number of people suffering from intensive, extreme burns are way too many and so many r still on the verge of death… What did those people do? Other than attended a wedding party? What abt the bride? It’s the worst nightmare for her to as she is also injured and lost her family.
There is no one I can personally support in this and yes I do understand the circumstances and all, that’s why I do not want her to get the death penality…

Enigma said...

@ Reflections
Hey Nancy, glad to c u bac… Ya that wedding fire incident was indeed a terrible tragedy and it’s a sorry affair…
:) ahh abt my preg- its 22 weeks and 3 days now