Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Baby Bloom Everywhere

Looks like its baby bloom time all around me… Suddenly so many of my friends seem to be having babies or have just had their little ones recently... And so many including me are in the waiting line too!!!

It sure is fun to read all the emails about the latest news, the latest happenings in all their lives and its sure does give me the creeps too when I wonder how I will be able to cope with all this. Anyway, it is certainly wonderful to get reassuring replies from everyone telling that we will cope fine and all :)

Humm well hope that their words come true and that we will cope well with the new changes in life. When I think about it more, it sure is freaky like hell to think about what a change it is in life and that we have to suddenly become more responsible. Well I don’t mind the responsible part, but this is just not any responsibility. You are becoming responsible for another human being for the rest of your life, you have to plan so many things in life now and now it will have to totally become a separate family thing like your child and spouse will definitely have to become first priorities. Well I hope I can work it all out… Phewww!!!

It sure was a very hot summer here but now the temperatures have started reducing and it sure is a relief to have a cool breeze in the evenings at least instead of the irritating hot blasts of air… I sure did enjoy the slow life and lesser timings at work due to the summer in Kuwait and also mainly due to the fact that so many people travel out of the country and life becomes slower and roads become less congested. To top it, we had Ramadan also recently which made life all the more slower and I sure enjoyed it because of the really short work timings which gave me amble time to reach home early, rest more etc…

The unexpected long holiday for Eid was another added blessing because my aunt and uncle had come down from US and life got so hectic last week as it was get-togethers at different places for us and it all went on from early in the evening to the wee hours of morning. Every day for those 6 days we used to reach home only after 3:00 am and luckily I was able to stay in bed till afternoon next day. It was only my poor dad who had to wake up every day at least by 6:30 am so that he could attend the phone calls and then go to work and all.

Now Eid and all are over and it’s back to the old work timings and all. I sure don’t enjoy that too much and plus the roads are back to being congested too. But ya life is like that and we all sure have to cope up with it. Winter also will slowly start creeping in and suddenly out of the blue it will be so damn cold to do anything… That’s when we will start complaining all the more about having to wake up to go to work, about not having central heating and all that nonsense. (Well the main signs of winter creeping in here now is – its winter clothes everywhere and the summer ones are all on sale and stuff and not the climate… that’s why I said out of the blue it will suddenly be so cold!)

Anyway I am looking forward to a good and pleasant climate and also waiting for some positive changes which has to happen really soon and keeping my fingers crossed so that some things will work out real fast… I just hope that the things I want will work out soon and God will certainly listen to our prayers!!!

10 comments:

the blogger formerly known as sansmerci said...

don worry kel! i kno m not the rite person to advice u on this :P but i think ur pretty mature n responsible to tackle it .. no worries :) good luck!

Samvedna said...

Children always bring a POSITIVE change in life,wait till you see:)

and God has made us such that we canlook after another human being and care for him/her more than ourselves....so nothing to worry..just be happy, look after your health..your happiness now will bring a happy temperament in your child.

Kelvy said...

@sansmerci
Thanks Swar....Humm pheww this is no small responsibility and i dont think i will ever be mature enough for all this...

Kelvy said...

@Antarman
Thanks...
Positive change huh? Well i really hope that will be my case too..
Ya i can take care of others to a certain point, but i do lose patience too...so worried abt that part... heheh i do want the baby to hav a happy temperament, hope that will be the case as i was angry and worried half the time abt work and so many things

Kelvy said...

@Antarman
Hey thank u so much for stopping by too :)

Vik Rajagopalan said...

Just don't lose hope. Keep trying [:)] and things will just fall in place. Sometimes in life, we don't have a solution to tackle challenge. When it comes by, we sure know how to deal with it, or atleast learn how to handle it.

Kelvy said...

@Vik
Yaaa... Just hoping that some things will work out real soon and it has to....

Kelvy said...

@Vik
Hey good to c u bac after quite some time :)

Jane said...

You'll do just fine Kel. You already used the right words: Priority and God - where can you fail?

Kelvy said...

@Shades
thanks Jane...humm just hope that thinsg will work out soon